Amazing Method to make your Man Spank you Lustily!

This Method has probably been re-invented throughout the ages, but none of my many women correspondents has mentioned it. Many of my correspondents face the same challenge: How to bring their gentle, loving man up to speed as a Spanking Gentleman?  The Method saved the marriage of a couple, who were probably married in the 1920 or 1930s.  Their story is told in a pithy case report I found in a 1950s sexology book.

Here is how I reported it to the 1HouseholdDisicpline discussion list on 8 October 2000.

I normally avoid amazing-but-true subject lines, but if this Method -
which might have been lost forever but now rises with new vigor from the
foxed pages of an obscure mid-20th-century sexology book - actually
works as described, then we will be singing the praises of Mother Nature
and Her Splendid Blessings more joyously than ever before! 

To solve Woman's age-old problem of inflaming her Man's passion for
lusty spanking and lovemaking, Bounteous Nature has given us a Method
both Elegant and Fiendish - a Method sublimely free of brattiness,
cajoling, begging, persuasion, unpleasantness or complication of any
kind!


Today, as on every Sunday, I made the most of the celebrated Melbourne
flea market known as "Camberwell Market". 

Today's booty included a book by Dr Harold H. U. Cross, entitled:

   The Lust Market

According to material at http://www.bookfinder.com, this was first
published around 1956.  It deals primarily with prostitution in Europe.
America, Australia and Africa - and the dust jacket has a photograph of
a French Woman Of The Night, with black locks and a gentle expression,
looking most attractive (apart from her cigarette) in a black taffeta
dress, drawn back to reveal a few square-centimetres or so of her bare,
unstockinged Upper Thigh.

I began reading at Chapter 29: "Masochism in Women".  


Here is the case report, verbatim, which reveals the Method and how it
saved a Marriage which - like so many others - lurched towards the rocks
of Womanly frustration with undemonstrative Man: 

    The patient was a housewife, aged forty-four, with two robust
    male children, fifteen and twenty, living away from home.  
    Health good.  Husband a mechanic, described as having a 
    phlegmatic disposition. Patient's childhood normal in every way. 
    Parents treated her with "kindly disposition" and never used 
    corporal punishment.

    During high school she went out with many boys, but resisted
    their attempts at defloration, managing to satisfy them with
    "heavy" petting.  Occasionally she submitted to mutual 
    masturbation.

    It is noteworthy that, in all these associations, there was a
    struggle.  The granting of any favors was always preceded by
    a "wrestling match."  Sometimes it was the boy who was beaten
    and then she was "elated" and sought to repair the damage with 
    kisses and caresses.  She invariably achieved an orgasm during 
    the process.

    She met her husband at a church dance.  She "desired" him at
    first sight, and "set out to get him."  They went to the movies
    together, and took trips to the surrounding beaches.

    Gradually the man thawed, and marriage was proposed 
    "mutually."  They spent their honeymoon at a mountain resort.
    Her husband was "tender and considerate," she stated; but she 
    missed the former wrestling matches.  Try as she would she was
    unable to promote the necessary combativeness in her spouse.
    She became despondent, a fact that served only to increase her
    husband's gentleness.

    One night, however, she discovered accidentally that her
    spouse could be galvanized into action by tickling his ribs!  
    With this aid she managed to transform him into a satisfactory 
    mate who would spank her until she yelled for mercy.



Now, if the World is going to hell in a hand-basket, with fractious,
frustrated Women and bamboozled, worn-out Men, with broken Marriages,
with Couples who should be raising Happy Children, instead parting as
strangers, never to fulfil Nature's Plan . . . . etc. and etc. then it
is a remarkable Blessing that the cure can be found in something
relatively simple and handy: *Spanking* - in the form of a playful Slap,
some Demonstrative Manliness and a carefully measured dose of
Correction.

But what if the Spanking Lamp cannot be ignited in the Man?  Minds
world-wide strain and wonder . . .  Thousands of discussion list
messages fly hither and thither trying to devise for him the correct
explanation of curious Womanly needs . . . or the right personal pep-talk
for each Man . . .  Authors labour towards their 400 page forthcoming
volumes on the Gentlemanly Art . . .  Women, in frustration and
ignorance, mess up their Marriages by bratting to get their essential
dose of Spanking Medicine . . .  While other Women remain despondent and
passive, convinced their Fine Caring Man could never Take Charge.  

The world over, Lamps remain unlit - and Men and their Latently Lusty
Loved Ones shiver in the cold, withering, vacuous wind that still howls
from the Pit which engulfed the latter decades of the previous century.

Wouldn't it be grand if the sure-fire Spark, which lights the Vital Lamp
of Spanking, turns out to be the Luscious Treat of Tickling?! 


 - Mr Fondman

Postscript:

Unfortunately, tickling may not be a sure-fire approach.

One fine couple report that they both hate being tickled.  For them, being tickled is different from the "jovial annoyance" many people experience.  Each person has their likes, dislikes and hates - and some people find tickling very disturbing.