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Re: [1HouseholdDiscipline] nagging

Tue, 02 May 2000
Mr Fondman  7 October 2000

This is an edited version of something I contributed to the 1HouseholdDiscipline discussion list.

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I think that Nancy's name for the condition: "lastworditis", and her
husband's cure - a good spanking, not in anger, and practical,
memorable, amusing and appropriate instructions on how to cope better in
the future ("Yes Sir!") . . .  I think these are perfect!

Will one application of this medicine be enough?  "Lastworditis" is a
long-established habit which is evidently very satisfying for quite a
few women.  

The punishment and talking-to shouldn't make it impossible for you to
think of nagging and having the last word, or to do so if you
consciously choose - that would be oppressive.  They should cause a
little bell to ring next time you drift this way - or a big bell!  Then,
you will have the opportunity to think consciously and rationally about
your conduct, rather than just acting out of habit.  

Assuming you hear the Bell, I hope you will be principled and wise
enough to behave constructively.  A nasty memory of a horrid spanking
could make it much easier for you to make the right decision.  "Its just
not worth it", might be your way of weighing up the temptation to pursue
deeply satisfying verbal-combat habits - when you remember that this
would earn you another punishment.   


  - Mr Fondman

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